Christopher Alexander Lay

christopher lay

August 5, 1986 ~ May 24, 2023

Born in: Fremont, California
Resided in: San Jose , California

Christopher Alexander Lay passed away at the age of 36, on May 24, 2023 in Fremont, CA.  His roots ran deep in the Bay Area: he grew up in Fremont, went to college and built a life in San Jose, and he loved all the natural beauty California has to offer. California was his playground; whether it was exploring the forests, kayaking in the lakes, or snowboarding the mountains, Christopher appreciated it all and took full advantage of all the outside activities and seasons. 

One of his favorite places was Utica Reservoir. He loved bringing friends there to explore, camp, paddle board, kayak, and catch the amazing sunrises and sunsets. He loved snowboarding at Kirkwood in Lake Tahoe and recently fell in love with backcountry splitboarding. One of his most memorable (and coldest adventures) was a snowshoe backpacking trip at Dewey Point in Yosemite where he dug out a snow cave for him and one of his closest friends to sleep in. 

He was such a bright light to this world, and to the community of friends and family that he built around him. He was a good listener, patient, kind, generous, and always willing to lend a hand. He had a gift of being able to connect with so many people, both younger and older than he was, and to make people feel welcome and comfortable. He always had a smile on his face, and such a cheerful and optimistic perspective on life. Although his time on Earth was cut far too short, he lived life freely and to the fullest.

He is survived by his fiancée, Linda Tran, his  parents, Pedro & Lucy, his sister, Christina (Kevin), and his nephew & niece. 

A service will be held on June 17, 2023 at Berge Pappas Smith Chapel of the Angels in Fremont, CA with the viewing at 1 pm and the service commencing at 2 pm. We will celebrate his life at 5 pm at the Fremont Downtown Event Center.

Services

Visitation: June 17, 2023 1:00 pm

Room: Garden Chapel

Berge Papas Smith Chapel of the Angels
40842 Fremont Blvd.
Fremont, CA 94538

510-656-1226
https://www.bergepappassmith.com

Funeral Service: June 17, 2023 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Room: Garden Chapel

Berge Papas Smith Chapel of the Angels
40842 Fremont Blvd.
Fremont, CA 94538

510-656-1226
https://www.bergepappassmith.com

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  1. Dear Lucy and family. I remember all the conversations we had about our children and their life journeys. Christopher grew to be an amazing young man who experienced life to its fullest. My heart is with you during this time. Love and prayers to all of you.

  2. CandleI have seen ur fiancee’s Instagram account and was touched by how much she loves you . I thought the least I could do was leave a candle in ur memory. rest in peace 🪷

  3. CandleI didn’t know Chris or anyone in his family, but have viewed stories on his Fiancée’s IG and he had a smile that seemed to light up a room. That smile is now beaming down on all of us. I hope his family and friends treasure the incredible memories of Chris and that they bring comfort in the days to come.

  4. CandleI did not know Chris or anyone in the family but came across his fiancé’s Instagram account. He seemed like a great man with many people around that loved him. Rest in peace brother. May God watch over your friends and family 🤍


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