Passed away peacefully, surrounded by loved ones, at San Ramon Medical Center. Born & raised on a farm in Forman, North Dakota. Former Ranger who served in the Korean War. He worked for Standard & Chevron Oil Company for 45 years. Resided in San Ramon, CA for 25 years with his loving wife, Polly & his companion, Prancer. Loving husband, uncle of many nieces & nephews, great nieces & nephews, great-great nieces & nephews, step-father of eight & grandfather of many grandchildren. Elmer was a very kind, gentle man of few words who loved his TV Westerns. In the 25 years he was married to Polly, there was never a cross word said. Preceded in death by his parents, Howard & Frances Cady, brothers Marvin, John & Roy and sisters Mary Jane & Ezzie. He is survived by brothers Donnie & Jean and sister-in-law Agnes, sister Joan and brother-in-law Doc, sister Ruby & brother-in-law Doran and sister-in-law Deanna and many cousins.

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  1. I am truly grateful to have had you in my life through the years. I will miss you Uncle Elmer. You will remain in my heart always. May you rest in peace. Your niece Susie

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  2. Uncle Elmer, I will forever miss your shy smile and even though you sat quietly you always enjoyed listening to your brothers BSing. Love you and will miss you. Love you Uncle Elmer. Enjoy the smear games with your family.

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  3. Uncle elmer, I love and miss you so much I had great memories growing up with you. I’m so happy you got to meet colin and bryan, you will forever be missed and loved. Say hello to Nana vera for me and tell her I love her. Rest in paradise!

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  4. Uncle Elmer, you left us way to soon. I hope you are having fun playing smear up there with your brothers and sisters. You are very missed. I love you.

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  5. Uncle Elmer, what a very kind man you were. Like others have said a man of very few words but you could always tell you were taking it all in and always had a smile on your face. God bless you.

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  6. Uncle Elmer your the best loved very much. We miss you. .
    Thanks for being apart of our family.

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  7. Uncle Elmer you will be missed so much! Rest in Paradise. We all love you. Thanks for being a great Uncle to us all!

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  8. Uncle Elmer,
    May your soul forever rest in paradise. You will be truly missed. I love you and I am grateful for the time we had together.

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