May Oy (Wong) Ho

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May Oy Ho was a Loving wife & mother born on October 17, 1929 in China, Guangdong Province, Sun Wui . She arrived in San Francisco in October of 1948, lived in Fresno, California until she met & married her husband Robert Yee Ho in 1952. She was a passionate mother to her four children: Wayland, Harmon, Kirby & Angela born in 1952, 1953, 1956 & 1960, was the caring older sister to her brothers Donald & Edwin Wong, and the proud grandmother to Alexander & Emily Ho (children of Wayland & Regina of Union City-CA). She was also the mother-in-law to Regina Chan-Ho, Patrick Faris, Kathryn Clements (formerly Kathy Ho, deceased), and Gustina Tan Ho. May created & maintained new households over the years as a dedicated & consumate homemaker throughout her life for her family as they had extended stays (moved) over the 62 years between San Luis Obispo-Calif, San Francisco-Calif, Oahu-Hawaii, Foster City-CA, Washington DC-Maryland, and Fremont-Calif, making friends and associations with many over that period. Besides residing in those many nicer places around America, May enjoyed travels to China, Hong Kong, Hawaii & Alaska in the last 15 years. May suffered a stroke in 2007, so that limited much her activities in the last 7 years. With her many residences over the earlier years, May enjoyed many new acquaintances and lasting friendships from her memberships in the Foster City Chinese Club, The East Coast Chinese Club, and the Alameda County South Bay Chinese Club. Besides family, Home & Food was central to everything done in her life. May thoroughly enjoyed cooking lots of food (especially Chinese) and feeding the family and friends around at the time. She drew great satisfaction from seeing the smiles on everyone's face during a meal. May she rest in Peace. ESTIMATED TIMES & Activity: Planned Wake - Funeral Services & Burial for Mom this coming weekend: FRIDAY – Evening (July 25, 2014): FAMILY VISITATION & VIEWING Opportunity (come & go); Wake & Viewing open 5pm to 8pm Then SATURDAY Afternoon: 1:00-1:30PM - VIEWING, Mingling 1:30-2:30PM – Service / Eulogy & Chat, Prep to travel (Chapel of the Angels, Berge Pappas Smith Mortuary, 40482 Fremont Blvd, Fremont, CA 94538) 2:30-3:30PM Travel escort to Cemetery in San Mateo Hills – Skylawn Memorial / Across the SF Bay 3:30-4:30PM Burial Service 4:30-6PM Dinner in San Mateo somewhere to be determined, close by.

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    Friday’s wake and visitation for EVERYBODY, not just family.

    Saturday’s restaurant will be held at:
    New Kwak Wah
    32 West 42nd Avenue
    San Mateo, CA 94403

    Thank you,

  2. Bob and family: Aaron and I send our condolences and sympathies to you and your family for May’s passing. May your many memories of your happy times together sustain you through this difficult time.

  3. On behalf of my family, please accept our condolences and sympathies. The Wong family, Kirk and Elena. As well, my father, Kim, also wishes to express his condolences.

  4. Waymond and Family
    I wish to express my sincerest sympathies on your loss. Haveing just lost my Mother and Brother recently myself I can atleast try and understand your grief. I do know there is really no way to quantify this loss. Or assume that I could understand the depth of this to you. I do know that it will take time to greive, and everyone does it in their own way and time. Again, My sincerest condolances, to You and your Family.
    Your Friend Always.
    Stephen Noia and Family

  5. Kirby and Family,
    We are sorry to hear about your mom’s passing. Please accept our condolences, our prayers are with you all. George Elizondo and Family

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