Thomas Reck

thomas  reck

January 27, 1955 ~ March 16, 2020

Born in: Richland, Washington
Resided in: Fremont , California

Thomas Michael Reck passed away unexpectedly at home on March 16, 2020.

Tom was born on January 27, 1955 in Richland, Washington. He moved to Fremont when he was 4 years old.  He was a machinist by trade but was also a mechanic, an electrician and a contractor.  He could and did fix anything!  Tom was a longtime resident of Fremont, living in his childhood home for the past 35 years.

Tom is survived by his wife of 40 years, Kathy Reck; son Tommy (Hayzel) Reck and daughter Andee (Miguel) Suarez; grandchildren Danielle and Amaya Reck and Jackie, Julian and Lilliana Suarez; step-grandchildren Sabrina Cisneros and Alycea Jones; sister Sharon (John) Sullivan of Concord, CA, and sister Karen (Robert) Hahn, brother John (Enid) Reck and brother Tim Reck, all of Richland, WA, plus his many nieces and nephews.  He was proceeded in death by his parents, John and Lavera (Midge) Reck.

Tom loved Friday date nights with Kathy (especially Shaker’s Pizza!), fishing with Tommy, hanging out with Andee and enjoying his grandchildren.  He was an avid golfer, playing at least once a week, plus a monthly tournament with the AMD/Spansion Golf Club.

A memorial service for Thomas will be held on Saturday, June 19, 2021 from 1:00 PM to 5:00 PM at Berge Pappas Smith Chapel of the Angels, 40842 Fremont Blvd., Fremont, CA 94538.  If you have any questions please contact Kathy, Tommy or Andee for confirmation.  In lieu of sending flowers, the family would appreciate donations in memory of Tom to either the Humane Society Silicon Valley or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Services

Memorial Service: June 19, 2021 1:00 pm - April 20, 2024 5:00 pm

Room: Garden Chapel

Berge Papas Smith Chapel of the Angels
40842 Fremont Blvd.
Fremont, CA 94538

510-656-1226
https://www.bergepappassmith.com

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  1. Tom…I’ve loved you since I was 18, and I’ll love you for the rest of my life. I miss you so much!

  2. My condolences to you, Kathy, and your whole family…my thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.

    Tom was a neighborhood teenager when I moved into my house, 46 years ago. I could always count on a smile and a wave when I drove by. He was a great neighbor, who cared deeply for his family and was always available to help in the neighborhood. He will sorely be missed.

  3. CandleKathy, you and your family have our sincere condolences.
    Tom was a great neighbor, always friendly, and ready to give a helping hand or a salmon steak. We sure miss him.

  4. We grew up together as a whole pack of Irvington neighborhood kids. It was the 1960’s and we were always outside playing, joking, and getting into so many shenanigans (Midge & John were not pleased, but we sure had fun!)

    Little did we know that years later our own kids would become friends and go rompy-stomping that same neighborhood (our turn to not be pleased, but they sure had fun!)

    Many thanks for those good times and fond memories. Sending our heartfelt condolences to All of the Reck family (especially Kathy) at this untimely passing of your husband, father, brother, uncle, friend and (once upon a time) Neighborhood Rascal.

  5. CandleKathy, although I didn’t know him personally, I sure loved our exchange of “hubby” stories at work. Always a chuckle! I know you’re an amazing person my friend, so Tom HAD to be great guy to hold your heart for as long as he has! I wish I would have had the opportunity to know him. Sending Love and my prayers for you and your and family. I’m here for you girlfriend, anytime of day! Love you!

  6. CandleTom’s passing doesn’t seem to register as his loss was so unexpected. We first met Tom and Kathy 42 years ago when they moved in next door. Tom was 23 and Kathy was 18, they were just kids enjoying life to the fullest. We all had wonderful times boating and camping together.

    Later, they bought the home he was raised in, which was far away (around the corner). Tom was proud of his wife, his son and daughter, and loved being with his grand kids.

    So many sweet memories, their beautiful wedding day, the birth of Tommy and Andee, their kids weddings, and the births of their grand children, showers, and birthday parties. Family times spent together was what brought them the most happiness.

    Tom was indeed a gifted contractor, as he loved using his hands to redesign homes and bring them to their full potential, a rare talent. Golfing and fishing were his favorite sports. 🎣 ⛳️ 🏌🏼‍♀️

    Too many memories to mention, but Tom will be forever missed by all of us, especially his beloved family.

    May you ‘Rest in Paradise, Tom’
    ♥️🙏🏼

  7. Tom,
    We, your fellow golfers, were so shocked by your sudden passing. We hope you are getting to play golf, the game you loved so much, in heaven – we certainly have not been able to do so since you left us. Your quiet strength and loyal friendship will be missed by all of us.
    Rest in peace!
    Your brothers at the AMD/Spansion Golf Club.

  8. Kathy,
    My deepest sympathy to you and the Reck family. Over the years, I played with Tom many times in the AMD/Spansion Golf Club. Tom will always remain with you and us as long as we have memories.

  9. Tom and I played golf on a weekly basis and also the monthly AMD/Spansion golf tournaments. We always had a fun time even if we weren’t playing the best golf. Our favorite tournament was at pacific grove and often talked about how we got caught in a big rain storm at the driving range and high trailed it to the clubhouse. We were about to head home but Gene assured us it was going to clear up soon. So we stuck around and it turned out to be a great day!
    Tom loved to talk about his fishing trips to Alaska and his grandchildren. He was teaching one of them how to golf.
    Tom was truly a great find and I will miss him on the golf course.
    Robert

  10. CandleDear Kathy and Family,

    We are so sorry for your sudden and tragic loss of Tom. He was a much loved husband, father and grandfather, and you surely have many fond memories of your time together. Although we did not know him well, we do know that he was a thoughtful and helpful person with knowledge on a wide range of topics and many practical skills. May he rest in peace and remain forever in your hearts.

  11. Was a real pleasure to play golf with Tom and Kathy

    My deepest condolences Kathy

    David Duffin

  12. CandleHaving been best friends with Kathy since 7th grade, I have known Tom since they first started dating. I was in the wedding party, in the hospital for Tommy’s birth and close at hand for Andee’s. I have had the joy and privilege to stay close and be a part of this family for many years – through all the ups and downs, family additions and family passings. Through it all, Tom was a good person – a good husband, father, son, brother and friend. He was someone who was very resourceful and you could always call upon him to lend a hand if needed.

    Most of all, Tom cherished his family and spending time with all of them. It is truly sad that in today’s home quarantine situation he is not here to share it with his family – because he would have loved it!!!

    Love and prayers,
    Nancy

  13. CandleBrother, I am going to miss more than words can say. Kathy, Tommy, Andee and family. You all are one of the best things that Tom brought into our lives.
    Rest In Peace, Love you.

  14. CandleDear Kathy,

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! I wish I would have had the opportunity to know Tom. His smile looked so encouraging and warm, surely you miss him very much.

    Hug and love,
    Cindy

  15. CandleKathy,
    My heart overflows with compassion and sympathy at the sudden loss of your dear husband, Tom. I’m sorry that I never got to meet him but from your stories, I feel like I knew him – as a wonderful husband, father, grand daddy- golfer and the best fix-it guy in town! While he isn’t physically here, the relationship continues. He’ll be there for you and your family – lucky you have those beautiful grandchildren to love and cherish! Peace my friend.

  16. Candlewe have lots of fine memories when we were younger, I married your sister in 1968 when you were starting out as a teenager, though we didn’t have much in common at that time we became close when you lived with karen and I in La Habra. When I moved to the bay area in 1977l you were purchasing a boat and we would go on the poker runs at the delta, when you and Kathy went tail gating at candle stick for 9er games, when we met you and Kathy in the red woods for campling when our girls were small. When you rebuilt my v w engine and changed out our windows in La Habra, when we would fish at Los Banos for strippers. Tom I could go on for a lot longer but it just hurts inside that we didn’t stay close when we got older. I mis you Tom brother in law Robert


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